How To Get A Woman's Phone Number And Email Address Within Three Minutes Of Meeting Her.pdf

"How To Get A Woman's Phone Number And Email

Address Within Three Minutes Of Meeting Her"

Let me start off by telling you something interesting:

I've personally stopped focusing on just getting phone numbers. I've

found that EMAIL addresses are far better (I still get the phone

number too, of course).

Let me explain.

I perfected the art of getting phone numbers a couple of years ago.

If a woman is single, I can walk up to her and get her number in about a

minute or two (if I'm in a hurry). I found out later, after working like a

mad scientist on this that GETTING PHONE NUMBERS ALONE

DOESNT'T EQUAL SUCCESS.

You see, women have many different reasons for giving out their phone

numbers. Some love the attention of having a lot of men call them.

Some like to turn guys down. Some are actually interested. But the

universal feedback that I get from men, and in my personal experience,

women act different on the phone than they do in person .

When you call a woman for the first time, she'll often start acting

stand offish or even worse, just plain rude . It's almost like she's a

different person than the one you met.

I've found that getting an EMAIL address is not only easier, but it

gets more positive responses later on. It's almost as if women

appreciate it that you've taken the time to think about what you're

going to say when you write an email to them, and they think of you

more like someone they know .

The other benefit of email is that it can be written and answered

anytime.

If you call, you have to actually reach them. But an email can be

answered anytime. And I've found that emails are answered FAR more

often than voicemail messages .

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HERE'S THE HOW TO:

After I've talked to a woman for about 3 or 4 minutes, I'll often say

something like "Well, it was nice meeting you. I'm going to get back to

my friends."

They usually don't know what to do, as they're used to guys clinging to

them. Most of the time, they say "It was nice meeting you too..." Then,

just as I'm turning to walk away , and we kind of disconnect, I turn back

and say "HEY! Do you have email? "

The "HEY!" is a bit surprising, and "Do you have email" is non-

threatening. In fact, I'm technically asking her if she HAS email, not if

she'll GIVE IT TO ME.

If she says "yes," I take out a pen and paper and say "Great, write it

down for me" and I have her write it down. (This is great, as I just

treat the 'yes' that they give me as a yes to get it from them as well .

And they've almost ALL gone along with it so far) Then AS SHE'S IN

THE MIDDLE OF WRITING, I say " Write your number down there

too ."

When you ask for email, it's very low risk for a woman , so she'll think

"Fine, I'll do that." Most women will give out an email address without

thinking about it, because they know that they can choose later to just

not answer.

The magic of asking them to write their phone number down WHILE

they're in the middle of writing down their email is all about the

psychology of human behavior.

She's already mentally said "OK, I'll give you my email address"... and

she's in the middle of writing it down. When you say " And just write

your number down there too " it's only NATURAL to just write it.

In other words, it's a MUCH smaller step than giving out the phone

number all by itself. It took me a LONG time to figure out this simple

move, but it works like magic! You will have women writing their phone

numbers down without even thinking twice.

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Here's a great add-on to make sure you're getting a real phone number

and not a pager or voicemail :

As she's writing down her phone number I say " Is this a number that

you actually answer? " If she looks at me and hesitates, or says that it's

her "voicemail or pager number," then I say " Look, write your real

number down. It's going to be OK, I'll only call you nine times a day... "

They laugh and usually give me their real number.

Now, if she answers my first question and says "No, I don't have email"

then I bust on them and say "Well, do you have electricity?" This is a

GREAT opportunity to use humor .

Then I say "Well, OK then… I like email better, but I'll take your

regular phone number. It's so damn hard to reach people on the phone

these days."

Just realize that all you have to do is ask .

Like I said, I've tried all kinds of things. And I've gotten hundreds of

phone numbers. And I use this exact sequence every time I talk to a

woman and I want to get her phone number. I've gotten to the point

where I can often do this in a minute or two - no kidding!

Now that you know the sequence, write it down with the words and the

steps, and rehearse it in your mind over and over until you know exactly

what to say for each step and each response.

Many guys have asked me "But what do I tell her as a reason why I

want her number or email?" I've never had a woman ask me. If you ask,

and they give it, then she knows why you asked. If she doesn't give it

to you, then she also knew why you asked.

Just assume that this is the case.

If you ask every time, and you do it in a smooth, assuming, calm way ,

you'll get a lot of emails and phone numbers.

Note: Carry a pen on you at all times . I prefer the Fisher Space Pen

(chrome) because it's small, classy, and women love it!

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HOW TO EVICT THE INNER WUSSY...

...OR...

...HOW TO STOP DOING THE WRONG THINGS, AND START

DOING THE RIGHT THINGS TO ATTRACT MORE WOMEN AND

KEEP THEM ATTRACTED!

I was talking to a good friend a few nights ago, and he told me an

interesting story.

He was walking home recently, when he walked by a couple who were

obviously in an emotional discussion.

As it turned out, the woman was breaking up with the man, and he was

trying to understand why.

The interchange went something like this:

Her: " I'm not ATTRACTED to you anymore... I just don't FEEL IT. "

Him: "But I would do ANYTHING to make this work... I'll do anything

you want... just tell me what to do ."

Her: "That's the problem. You just don't get it."

...and that was all he heard.

Have you ever been there?

Have you ever had a girlfriend break up with you, or just drift away,

and the more you tried to hold on, the further she ran from you? And

the more you tried to be a "good guy" and please her, the more distant

she became?

Well, me too. I've been there MORE than once in my life.

And it ALWAYS SUCKED.

The worst part about it was NEVER UNDERSTANDING WHAT THE

HECK WAS GOING ON!

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I can remember being that guy I just told you the story about... and

asking "Why? Why are you confused? What do I have to do to make

this work?"

I was willing to change, act different, or whatever.

Little did I know at the time, but it was this EXACT attitude that led

to all the problems in the first place .

If you've read my newsletters for awhile now, you probably know that

women don't feel the emotion called ATTRACTION for guys who act

weak, needy, insecure and "WUSS-LIKE" .

But unless you know this to begin with, then it's ALL TOO EASY to

become a "nice", overly-accommodating, uninteresting, predictable,

boring guy... and even though it seems logical that a woman should love

to be treated like a queen at all times, you've probably found out, just

like I have, that this combination usually leads to a woman either 1)

Leaving you... or 2) Becoming increasingly controlling, domineering, and

neurotic .

So what's up with that? Why does this happen? And more importantly,

what can we do to avoid getting into this horrible position of losing a

woman's attention because we're trying to be nice to her?

Here's my take, after studying this stuff for about five years now...

1. ATTRACTION ISN'T A CHOICE.

In other words, we humans don't CHOOSE who we feel attracted to...

and, JUST AS IMPORTANT, who we DON'T feel attracted to.

ATTRACTION happens for reasons all its own , and these reasons have

evolved inside of us over the last several million years.

While culture, peer pressure, and trends can shape our natural drives

slightly, the FUNDAMENTALS NEVER CHANGE.

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