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The Smart Dating System
Cheat Sheet #1 – The Smart Dating System Overview
The Smart Dating System
Every relationship needs the following three components: intimacy, passion, and commitment.
Commitment
Intimacy
Passion
Should any of the three components go missing, true love won’t occur.
Of these three components, passion is the most important, as it is often the only variable you can
actively control.
The ingredients of intimacy and commitment are mostly personality traits of your lover that you
cannot control. The only thing you can control out of these ingredients is their respect for you, which you
will keep as long as you remain a challenge . We do this by demonstrating our emotional and physical
independence.
Passion is a sexual tension you feel when you’re with someone you’re really sexually attracted to. It
creates a discomfort zone in a booming relationship – when you’re attracted to a person but are not
sure if the other person likes you back. In short, this discomfort zone is based on two things: Desire and
doubt.
We can create doubt by acting like a challenge to woman. As for desire , it comes from our
subconscious mind. Desire is ALL based on our emotions .
Attraction cuts through everything , including any kind of Ex-force (negative forces combined.)
Imagine an old-fashioned balance scale. On one side is an Ex-force exerting on you. On the other side
is your date’s attraction for you. If her attraction for you outweighs the Ex-force, she stays. Otherwise,
she goes.
Smart Dating Rules:
Smart Dating Rule #1: It’s Not How Much You Like Her, But How Much She Likes You That Matters!
Smart Dating Rule #2: You Need Permission To Advance
Smart Dating Rule #3: Stay Objective
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Cheat Sheet #1 – The Smart Dating System Overview
Smart Dating Rule #4: Attraction Cuts Through Everything
Smart Dating Rule #5: Attract, Not Chase
Smart Dating Rule #6: Be A Challenge To Create Passion
Women like masculine men that are sexual in nature, although their social conditioning tells them
otherwise. But just like a man cannot control his attraction for an attractive girl, a woman cannot control
her attraction for an attractive man.
The attraction egg model suggests that a woman is like an egg:
Resistance
Sexual State
In the middle of the attraction egg is a malleable york that represents a woman’s sexual state , or
how horny she is for you. Outside the york is her resistance , including her fear of rape and her social
conditioning . This is an impenetrable wall of resistance that you cannot infiltrate with any kind of
physical power. However, it does let one thing go through: feelings . To attract a woman, what we want
to do is to send feelings through her resistance wall and into her sexual state . As more feelings
build up within the malleable york, it will have no choice but to expand…
Until it reaches the surface:
Sexual State
Sexual State
To achieve this goal, we send feelings through her resistance in order to
arouse her sexual state . We can do this with the three-step approach . The
three-step approach consists of:
1) Calibrating a woman’s emotions .
2) Anchoring and amplifying her desire .
3) Using physical action to advance things to the next level.
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