PB_8types_pt7.pdf

How To Get Threesomes

And Bring Out The ‘Freak’

For All 8 Types Of Women

part 7 f 8

of the Pandora’s Ph.D.

Strategy Series

Vin DiCarlo

DiCarlo Coaching

Strategy Guide Written By Brian Burke

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Introduction

to focus on the why factor. Why does she respond to this, and not that?

When you can think on this level, you will be able to be your own coach, and

guide your own progress.

In this article, I’ll explain how to bring out the “freak” in each type of woman.

I organized each section under three most common goals, or desires, men

have with their sexual partners. Obviously, having threesomes (or foursomes,

etc) is a common desire. So is creating a power dynamic through dominance

and submission, and role playing. Also, most guys want to feel worshipped,

sexually, by women. So we’ll address that too.

In my experience, women are actually kinkier, and more adventurous than

men. Women’s fantasies are much more extreme and varied than men’s.

The problem is that men prevent women from expressing their sexuality. I’ll

address the common mistakes you should avoid, which prevent women from

feeling comfortable being freaky with you.

A woman’s Time Line affects her motivation. A Tester has sex because it’s fun

– a new experience. An investor will be intimate because it brings her closer to

her man. All women like sex for both reasons – it’s fun, and it creates a bond.

A s you become a better lover with the eight types, you must remember

As the Time Line is the most lexible line, there is a lot of gray area and she

can sway to either side depending on her recent dating experiences.

Her Relationship Line affects her sexual identity – what kind of lover she sees

herself to be. A Realist sees sex as a part of a healthy relationship; she takes a

functional perspective and enjoys seducing her man as she takes responsibility

for the intimacy in a relationship. An Idealist sees sex as an adventure, where

she is the one seduced.

A woman’s Sex Line applies to how she responds to escalation. Intimacy

requires a constant evolution in the relationship – moving to higher and deeper

levels of vulnerability and expression. When we talk about vulnerability, we

are talking about emotional compliance – she is trusting you more and more.

She has to, because she is giving her body up to your will. Justiiers and

Deniers deal with this vulnerability differently, but how depends on the other

two lines, in combination with the Sex Line.

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Playette

Tester

Although the Playette seems like a good girl, she loves the thrill of sex. Its just

that her Denier aspect makes her very cautious and defensive. As you become

more intimate, you’ll need to use novelty and increasingly edgy sexual

activities to keep her devoted to you. This is because as a Denier, sex is seen

as substantial compliance.

Idealist

The Playette takes a more passive role, as she wants to be swept away. She

must feel safe in letting go, but she revels in feeling desired. So you must use

your desire for her, to turn her on. It’s your desire for her that turns her on,

and this is the way to take your experience to the next level – by telling her

how crazy she makes you, how hard you are for her, how you must have her

right now.

Denier

As a Denier, the Playette needs to feel safe irst and foremost. You’ll want

to escalate quickly, and then frame the escalation as her doing – she turned

you on so much that you couldn’t resist her. Remember to balance this

escalation with falling back on intensity and touching her in a protective,

comforting way.

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