PB_8types_pt8.pdf

Total Devotion

For All 8 Types Of Women

part 8 f 8

of the Pandora’s Ph.D.

Strategy Series

Vin DiCarlo

DiCarlo Coaching

Strategy Guide Written By Brian Burke

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Introduction

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The key to exacting devotion in a woman is to always maintain the dynamic

that you are the most important person in the relationship. If she’s chasing

you, she can’t chase other men, so leave no room for her to think of them. This

is easy – don’t think about her more than she thinks about you.

Create the dynamic where she is busy thinking about you a lot. This means you

CAN’T make her the most important person in your relationship, because then

she will think she’s “done” seducing you, and can move to another challenge

(and women LOVE challenges). Instead, keep her mind occupied with winning

you over.

This means never being “won over” until you are ready to settle down and

start a family. Even then, she must earn you attention and affection.

Vision

Think about why we elect oficials to government ofice: we believe they will

lead our community in the right direction. You do the same in a relationship with

a woman – you are the leader. This is the foundation of dominance. You must

have goals, hobbies, values, and rules you live by. Be clear on who you are.

Each type is looking for different things, but don’t change – if you are

self-directed, you can fulill every woman’s basic need for leadership, or

dominance . But be conscious of which aspects of your personality you

emphasize. This is basically conversational topic choice – calibrate by relating

to her the values you both share. Each type has her own preference for how a

man expresses his vision.

Investment

Leverage a woman’s inclination to contribute, through supporting you. Ask for

her help with everything you can think of, including massages, back scratches,

bringing you sentimental gifts from her vacation, and introducing you to her

friends. All these examples keep her mind, and thus emotions, occupied with

you. Get her to tell you her biggest fears and past embarrassments. Have her

cook for you.

The more she invests, emotionally and physically, the more she is bound to

you. The more she is bound to you, the more she’ll do for you. The more she

does for you, the more invested, thus bound she is to you, and so on. Also,

the busier she is contributing to you, the less time and energy she has for

other men. Each type has a unique identity, which determines how she wants

to contribute. When you understand how she wants to contribute – what she

values in herself – you can leverage this to exact a high degree of investment.

Potential

Never be sold. As soon as YOU are devoted, she won’t be. The cultural

myth is that when a man devotes himself to a woman, she will be nice and

reciprocate. The true nature of humanity is that when you devote yourself to

someone, they are then free to gain someone else’s devotion – as if you are

checked off a psychological list. Devotion is perpetual service, mental and

physical.

The key to applying the principle of perpetual potential is to ind the balance

between bonding without succumbing to a woman’s attempts to lock you

down into monogamy before you are ready. And even when you decide to be

with one woman exclusively, you must still keep the dynamic of potentiality.

Always convey that although you like her and are happy with her, she must

still contribute and keep you excited. This is really easy when you are able to

meet women at will – in the back of your mind, and hers, is the possibility that

you can meet someone else if you are no longer satisied. The same is true in

reverse, but like I said, you must not concern yourself with her leaving you,

because you are the most important person in the relaionship.

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