PB_pt5.pdf

A Man’s Guide

part 5

Three

Great

Conlicts

of the

Female

Mind

Female Mind

The

The Three Great Conflicts of The Female Mind

ow we are getting into the foundation of the Pandora’s Box System.

The Pandora’s Box System is based on THREE MAJOR Emotional and

Social conflicts that women have in their mind.

Just like we want the hottest girl, but the hotter she is, the more nervous

we are to approach her… just like THAT’S a conflict for men, women have

conflicts too. But because of how our brains are wired differently, they are

MUCH more intense for women.

Ultimately, you have to understand these conflicts if you ever want to be

exceptional with women. They are real, and women have to deal with

them every day. Women take them for granted – and they almost ASSUME

that men should know them too. That’s why there’s so much confusion

between the sexes.

That being said, just being aware of these conflicts is going to put us ahead

of 99% of other guys she meets.

But using a SYSTEM designed to capitalize and EXPLOIT these conflicts

will give us nearly superhuman abilities.

By learning and studying this system, you are going to have supreme-

confidence with women. You’ll understand them better because they won’t

be so much of a mystery, and you’ll have much stronger conversation

naturally because as you investigate the different types, you’ll have a

genuine curiosity, that will make conversation happen with no effort.

Women often speak an almost indecipherable female code that’s almost

impossible for men to translate. Things like how to know she is giving off

signals that she’s interested, how to know she’s flirting or being serious,

why she likes certain guys as “just friends”, what secret behaviors get her

horny, when she’s ready to be kissed or have sex with you, if she wants a

relationship or not, why she’s friendly one minute and ice cold the next,

and the list goes on and on.

What’s interesting is that – this woman-speak – or women speaking a

different language than men comes DIRECTLY FROM THESE CONFLICTS.

So pay attention.

In this section we are going to:

1. Identify the three major conflicts between her biological drive and

society pressure

2. Learn the mental strategies she uses to deal with those conflicts

3. Transparently and invisibly align ourselves with those strategies

so that we become the ONLY source of her physical pleasure and

emotional comfort. This will make you automatically project the

qualities and attributes that make her attracted and get her turned on.

There are three MAJOR conflicts however, that are so intense, they force

women to choose a dominant strategy, and that becomes part of her

personality - which dictates significant behavioral differences – and

determines which triggers makes her feel attracted, which behaviors

make her feel comfortable, and what gets her turned on.

These three conflicts are: Time, Sex, and Relationship.

– Women are biologically programmed to mate with the

most dominant, high status man they can find so therefore she wants to

spend time really screening the men she dates and finding the best one

- but there is pressure from society to be with a guy who has high status –

and it is looked down upon if a girl is single for a long time.

This is why you will see women who are older, becoming cougars, and

becoming much more aggressive in dating, going out, and meeting guys.

Even to the point of hitting on the guys instead as opposed to younger

girls who are more likely to just sit there and let men approach them. It

all has to do with her feeling that her time is running out…

With men – they actually get BETTER with age, more successful, better

traveled, they have more sexual experience. And they can have children,

now especially with Viagra, well into their 70’s or 80’s.

She wants to enjoy the physical pleasure and emotional

intimacy of sex - but sex in the past has led to emotional trauma and

critical judgment from society and her peers.

This is why women will seem VERY into you, make out with you, let you

touch her, but there’s often an additional level of resistance right before

you start having actual sex. We know it feels great for her, and often

we don’t understand her hesitation, but she’s got an internal conflict

preventing her from going all the way.

Conflict of Time

Conflict of Sex –

And men – we don’t try to have sex with a girl, and then suddenly change

our mind because we’re scared of being judged. If anything our friends

think we’re even cooler for having more sex.

Her biological wiring drives her to support and

nurture family, and develop her feminine self / but

our male dominated

society encourages achievement, status climbing and developing her

career, just in case she doesn’t find a man to provide for her.

This is why you’ll see very successful women quitting their jobs or taking

an extended leave when they have kids. For example, recently Nicole

Kidman took a break from Hollywood to focus on raising her children.

You won’t see a man really taking a break from work to focus on his family

– if anything he’ll work even HARDER when he has more mouths to feed.

Now, because of the intensities of these 3 conflicts, she is forced to

develop coping strategies to manage them.

There are two very distinct coping strategies a woman can choose for

each conflict. The strategy she chooses becomes habitual, and it manifests

drastic differences in behavior between women.

Now, all women have the same conflicts, so that doesn’t really make them

unique. The difference is HOW WOMEN CHOOSE TO DEAL with these

strategies that are different. What we’ve found is that for each conflict a

woman has two different choices of how she can deal with it. The strategy

a woman chooses to manage these conflicts is WHAT DEFINES her

character type.

Conflict of Relationship –

Plik z chomika:

Inne pliki z tego folderu:

Inne foldery tego chomika: