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The "Sex Distraction" Rejection

This technique takes a lot of guts. (but you'll thank me later)

And it can only be applied when you are just about to have sex with her and you'll

see why. Let dive in.

Date: 6/24/2005 14:32:59 -0600

From: "" <***** @ msn.com>

To: CR James <cr @ superhappysex.com>

Hey CR,

Yes, your a genius! The Sex Distraction Technique worked like a charm.

Patience is a virtue. Also, the "Topic Mapping" idea is a very powerful

concept that i'd like to work with.

Keep up the good work and thanks for the ideas and info.

V M F

Age: 46

Network Engineer

Los Alamos, NM USA

Step 1: Just as you are about to have sex with her, tell her that you have to do

something as you get out of the bed and leave the room. Make sure she is lying

in the bed waiting for you to come back. This technique will be extremely

beneficial for the guy that has a female partner who believes in her mind that he

is always available for sex. (or wants sex too much)

Step 2: Just let her wait there. The beauty of this technique is that it doesn't

matter if you half-begged her into accepting sex from you, the fact that she now

expects to participate should make her upset/concerned if she is not getting it.

Step 3: You want her to wait there long enough to be vocal about why you are

just leaving her there (or why you are taking too long to return). Remember, you

are pretending to be occupied with something. If she threatens to cancel (by way

of going to sleep or getting out of bed) for not returning in a timely manner, then

make sure you immediately call it off.

Her: What's taking you so long? If you don't get in her in 5

minutes, I'm going to sleep!

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You: I'm sorry Sweetie, I didn't expect it to take that long. Why

don't you just go to sleep and maybe we can do it some other

time.

I told you it would take guts.

Your mission isn’t to upset her (believe it or not). Even though she may get

upset, you have to understand that the mission is to send her a powerful

message.

If you do it the right way, she will have a new belief in her mind that you are not

always available for sex. And there are other messages along with that one:

[Other message] That you don’t over-value the act of having sex – Whether you

like it or not, women will always be more sexually attracted to the guy who acts

like sex isn’t that big of a deal. And the best way of demonstrating that is passing

on it when she knows that you know that you could have it.

This technique will be very beneficial for the guy who rarely gets sex from his

female partner simply because she already believes that he would do anything

for sex and that he is always in the mood (bad signal).

Step 4: It is very important to not give in . Your reaction to her comments about

the sex abandonment is critically important . You can even say that that is where

the bulk of the message and power is. Anytime she expresses her shock that you

would pass on sex, it is important that you respond in a way that says you no

longer think sex is that big of a deal.

Basically, you do not want her to think that this is some strange one-in-a-lifetime

experience. You want her to think that you have elevated your perspective on

sex and you no longer believe it is everything – and as a result you will not

humiliate yourself over it.

It doesn’t matter how many times you have said “sex isn’t everything”, if you are

always available for sex and she thinks that you are always in the mood, then

she is going to have the real perception in her mind.

But continuing, you want to stand your ground if challenged it. Your words should

send the underlying message that you are sympathizing with her as if you are

saying to her: "I'm sorry for making you miss out on sex"

The points are picked up when she is completely caught off guard – when she

would never think in a million years that you would do such a thing. So keep that

in mind as you apologize for being inconsiderate for something that appears

unexplainable to her.

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Step 5: The real mission is creating a system or procedure that is designed to get

her to think and relive the moment of waiting for sex - over and over again. I

had a pet gold fish when I was a little boy named Sampson that I won at the

carnival. He was the strongest and toughest little fish I had ever seen. After

having him for a year, I woke up one morning and noticed the strange way he

was floating. He was dead. I cried my little eye balls out. Every time I reflect

back, I always feel I was a little too old to be crying over a fish, but the fact still

remains. When I went to school that day, every time I thought about Sampson I

would cry again. I was reliving the experience. I experienced the emotional

response of a kid that lost over 30 goldfish!

Your mission is to get her to relive the moment of waiting for sex over and over

again.

How do you do that CR?

It’s simple. You give her a dumbass reason why you got distracted from getting

ready to have sex when you were seconds away from it.

Remember to be apologetic:

Sorry, honey I realize you were laying in the bed waiting for me (to give you sex),

but the thought took over me to check online for this new filter for the salt water

tank!

I had no idea it would take that long.

Ideally you want her to be thinking: Are you fucking serious?!!! I didn’t get sex

because you were online looking at fish tank filters??!!

Because this makes no sense to her, it forces her to try to figure out how this

happened and she tries to make a place for this experience in her brain. This is

good, because every time she relives this experience she will be forced to picture

herself waiting in the bed for sex and…

((pause))

Before I finish that sentence, let me just say that having your female partner re-

thinking (over and over and over again) about how she is in the bed waiting to

have sex with you is so obviously effective that you should have fired-up

motivation to do. (Every guy reading this is not going to perform it)

((unpause))

…and the greater the “Are you fucking serious?” factor is, the more she will have

moments of reliving the event after it has already happened.

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The sequence should make logical sense to you so far.

And if you were paying attention, you noticed something else.

If you are one of the guys who is aware of ‘how competitive women are’, then

you know that after a while she is going to develop the idea that she “lost your

affection” to a fish tank filter! (or whatever you came up with)

Do you know what happens after that?

Before I continue, do you realize how competitive women are? I’ve seen women

get jealous of their man’s past girlfriends, fictional women, movie stars, cartoon

characters, pets, dream characters, etc…

There was a real life story about a woman who surgically removed her natural

Double-D breasts because her husband paid too much attention to them. I’m not

talking about a reduction, I’m talking about a removal . He was furious!

I was talking to a guy about something interesting that he was doing with his wife.

I told him the problem was ‘the particular thing he was saying to her’ was making

her jealous of her own pussy! He laughed.

Yes! Do not get shocked if a woman competes with her own pussy!

So let’s stay focused.

Just have a respect that her emotional profile is different than yours. And she

values your attention and respect. And understand that there are things that she

finds desirable in a man.

And when you do this technique, you send her the message that you are in

control of your sexual urges. And that you don't think sex is everything. And you

also demonstrate a rare sense of power that is like adding lighter fluid to your

sexual aura...

Only great men of power are determined. They are disciplined in their ways. It is

easy for a woman to generate a sexual craving for soldiers, executives, and men

of great achievement because of this. These men represent will power, strength

and ambition.

Men who demonstrate a control over their urges are the polar opposites of drug

addicts (controlled by his desires) and perverts (obsessed over their sexual

urges)...

Do not see the difference?

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